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Monday Health & Wellness: Does Your Diet Need an Upgrade?

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If you’re trying to get healthier, one of the primary areas to address is your diet!  What you eat is what you are (really).  What you eat fuels your body and provides the nutrients you need — or lack thereof.  A healthy, nutrient-dense diet is critical to good health.

Sadly, there are a lot of mixed messages out there about what’s healthy.  Eggs?  Coffee?  Butter vs. margarine; Sugar vs. Splenda (vs. no sugar at all…?).  So many.

If you’re new here, you may have missed some of my older posts on diet.  Today I want to reintroduce you to those, so that you can move at your own pace and work to revamp your diet!  And of course, if you have questions, feel free to ask. :)

Healthy Made Simple

The easiest answer is, if it’s “real food” — if it comes from a plant or animal that was raised without chemicals, and has been minimally processed — it is healthy.  It really is that easy!

If it is man-made, has chemicals in it, has unpronounceable ingredients — it’s not healthy.

And no, you don’t need to worry about all the fat and cholesterol that is in animal products.  Those are good for you.  Quite necessary for health, actually.  So let’s start reading!

Posts on Health and Diet

Here is a list of my older posts that will help you with health and diet:

In addition, we’ve just launched the new Modern Alternative Kitchen.  It’s a great resource for you if you’re confused about diet!  Here are several posts addressing healthy ingredients:

Wherever you are in your journey, there’s something here for you!

What’s the biggest question or issue you have with health and diet right now?

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Monday Health & Wellness: High-Protein Diets

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For the last couple of weeks, I’ve been pondering some interesting ideas about protein.  We’ve all spent plenty of time arguing about fat and carbs — high, low, or none of each — but protein.  We haven’t really talked about that.

I mentioned it in my recent post, Balancing Your Blood Sugar.  If you haven’t read that yet, go back and read it.  Especially the part about how protein affects your blood sugar.

Anyway, a lot of people seem to have fallen into this trap: “Protein is good…so more must be better!” They are constantly looking for high-protein snack and meal options and are even consuming protein shakes and buying protein powders….

That is not how it works.  With anything.  Let’s explore further.

If a Little is Good…More Must Be Better!

I really don’t know where we got this line of thinking, but it’s pervasive.  For example, vitamin C.   Vitamin C is some pretty great stuff and it’s true that even in large doses, it’s not actually toxic.  The body will eliminate what it doesn’t need.   Vitamin C has been linked to the ability to help clear infections and in some cases, even prevent them.  It’s been used, successfully, in cases where even mainstream medical treatments have worked.  But this has led to some people taking several grams of vitamin C a day, in hopes that this will make them healthier.  The same goes with any other supplement, too.

However, too much vitamin C can have negative effects.  If you take too much all at once, your urine can turn orange, and you will have serious diarrhea (as the body quickly tries to clear itself of the excess).  If you take too much calcium, you can block iron absorption and become anemic.  Too much calcium can also block magnesium, which can lead to neurological symptoms and weak bones.  Too much iron can be seriously toxic — which is why you have to call the poison control center if children find and eat iron-containing vitamins!

I know most of you believe me on the above examples.  But protein?  Protein is just food.

Vitamins are “just food,” too.  They are micro-nutrients.  Protein is a macr0-nutrient.  If a little is good, that doesn’t mean more must be better.  Instead, we should be looking at balance.

A Balanced Diet?

I know, strange concept, right?

Of course, when I say “balanced diet,” I am not talking about the same thing as the USDA.  I don’t mean lots and lots of bread, some fruits and vegetables, and a little meat and dairy and almost no fat.  That is not a balanced diet.

What I am talking about is finding the right balance of the macronutrients proteins, carbs, and fat.

None of these is evil and should be avoided long-term (there may be cause to limit or eliminate one of them in the short term due to a health concern).  All of these are necessary for our health.  All of these need to be in balance.  We cannot gorge on protein any more than we can gorge on carbs or fat.  In fact, we can do so less than we can gorge on fat, in many cases!

Everyone is going to have different ratios, depending on their individual needs.   Pregnant women and body builders do need quite a bit more protein than others.

Here is a starting place:

  • 50% fat
  • 30  - 35% carbs
  • 15 – 20% protein

That’s right…not too much protein!   Why not?

Eating too much protein can be dangerous to your health.  Most research shows that people should consume 15 – 25% of their calories from protein, and even those “high protein” diets recommend about 35% of calories from protein.  Most say that about 0.36g per lb. of body weight is ideal, although this may double during pregnancy or other special times.  What happens if you regularly consume more than 25% of your diet from protein?

  • Dizziness
  • Weakness
  • Kidney stones
  • Dehydration (due to the kidneys quickly flushing the urea, a byproduct of protein digestion out of your system)
  • Bone loss (due to calcium being flushed out quickly too)

Protein is essential in the body, used to make and repair all tissues.  However, it is not an efficient energy source (fat and carbs are).  This is why it is needed, but not in such high quantities.  We need fat and carbs for energy more than we need protein to repair and build tissue.  When our bodies are forced to use protein for energy (which is possible through a process called gluconeogenesis) because we’ve severely limited carbs and fat, this can cause blood sugar swings and also places a huge strain on the kidneys.

Protein’s definitely not a free-for-all, and more is not necessarily better.  Consume your protein, but don’t overdo it.

Protein Powders

Many people like to add protein powders to smoothies or shakes or use them as meal replacements.  This is not really a good idea for most people.  We don’t need to add extra protein to our drinks and snacks “just because” — see above!  Not to mention that most forms of protein powders are highly processed and unhealthy for this reason.

Skip whey protein powders, soy protein powders, and other forms of protein powder.  They are not whole foods anyway.  If you truly believe you need extra protein in your diet, stick to nuts and nut butter, meats, cheeses, and other natural sources.

If you’re looking for a healthier addition, try coconut oil or another source of healthy fat.  Most of us probably do not get enough fat in our diets.  Fat helps us to absorb the important fat-soluble nutrients in the fruits and vegetables we should also be eating.

So What Do We Eat?

As always, I recommend an omnivorous diet.  Long-term, it is not good to refuse to eat dairy, grain, meat, or any other food group, barring an allergy issue.  Limited diets should be for recovery only, if you have a specific health issue, and then an omnivorous diet should be taken up again.

Strive to have your meals contain a good mix of carbs, proteins, and fat, and to overall eat quite a lot of different foods.  Plan plenty of fruits and vegetables, and serve them with cream, vinaigrettes, or other fat sources.  Consume meat or nuts with your meals, or add beans to your salads.

Most of the time, eat in the way that makes you feel best.  Ignore all of the fad diets and the different voices out there telling you that you must eat a ton of this, or completely avoid that.  This is not helpful.  If you eat a balanced diet and avoid the supplementary “protein powders” or other snacks that are specifically “high protein” (most of the time) then you will do just fine.

Do you consume lots of protein, or use protein powders?  Why or why not?

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Monday Health & Wellness: Managing Your “Cycle” Naturally

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Prior to getting pregnant for the first time, I used to buy and use regular tampons.  And I had the “normal” cramps and pain and irritability and bloating and all the fun stuff that goes along with that time of the month.  So fun, right?

Post- pregnancy I couldn’t quite bring myself to use tampons anymore (I have no idea why), so I used regular disposable pads.  It wasn’t really better.  After my second pregnancy, I switched to cloth.  This was better.  And a few weeks ago after getting my cycle back postpartum this time, I noticed something new: absolutely no pain, whatsoever.  Nothing.  Other than the obvious “messy” factor, I wouldn’t have even known I had it. (It’s been better in other ways, too, which I’ll talk about below.)  And this is possible for others, too.

Painful Periods

So many women struggle with pain around their cycle.  Some are basically incapacitated for a few days each month.  How terrible is that, that what is a normal biological function can completely knock women out so frequently?  And how inconvenient, too — what if you have a job, or children?  How are you going to deal with your normal responsibilities?  Not to mention having to cope with the pain.

It isn’t normal.  And it doesn’t have to stay that way.

The reasons for this pain (also known, in some cases, as PMDD — Premenstrual Dysphoric Disorder) are related to health.  Diet, environmental factors, hormonal imbalances.  A lot of people do not realize that there is something “wrong” when they are suffering this way.  We are told it’s par for the course, and that you will just have to take OTC drugs, or possibly prescription drugs, in order to manage the pain.  Women are even told that they should take hormonal birth control in order to “balance” their bodies — which is a terrible idea!  This introduces synthetic hormones, masking the problems (in some cases), but certainly not solving them.

Women struggle with painful periods for the following reasons (this is not an exhaustive list):

  • PMDD
  • Endometriosis
  • PCOS
  • Thyroid disorders
  • Other endocrine/hormonal issues

This leads to signs and symptoms like:

  • Bloating
  • Cramping
  • Backaches
  • Headaches
  • Diarrhea or constipation
  • Feeling too cold or hot
  • Fatigue
  • Depression
  • Anxiety
  • Mood swings
  • Appetite changes, food cravings
  • Insomnia
  • Weight gain

It’s rough to feel this way.  Especially when it feels unpredictable (for women with longer or irregular cycles).  However, these symptoms are there for a reason.  They’re there to clue you in to what’s going on with your hormones, and if you can solve the puzzle, you can find relief!

Hormonal Shifts are Normal

Women have natural hormonal shifts throughout their menstrual cycle.  It’s normal.  What’s not normal is the wild swings or imbalances that some women experience.  Subtle, yet obvious shifts are expected.

You can read more about what’s normal in my post on tracking your fertility signs.  This is something that is a good idea for all women to do, so that they can get a clear picture of what’s going on with their bodies.  I’m beginning to track this myself now since I have gotten mine back postpartum (on cycle #2 now…and so far I’m pretty sure I’m not ovulating, but otherwise it’s perfectly regular and normal!  More on that in a minute).

Tracking your cycle variables — temperature, cervical position, and any symptoms you’re having (like above) will give you a clue to what is happening, and help you to balance your hormones.

Try using Fertility Flower to help you keep track of all of these variables.  It’s the perfect place because it already has everything you want to track on the forms.

Naturally Balancing Your Hormones

When I got my period back after Daniel was born, he was around 9 months old.  I knew I wasn’t ovulating yet because my “symptoms” weren’t right.  Also, for the first time in my life, my period was sort of irregular.  My second one showed up 9 days “late” (at 37 days instead of 28).  At the time, I weighed only around 118 lbs. — I am 5’3″.  I was so happy to weigh so little — but I don’t think it was healthy for my body.  As my weight slowly rose, settling around 130, my cycle got closer and closer to regular, and then I finally ovulated about 15 months postpartum (and immediately got pregnant with Jacob).

This time, I got my period back at about 6.5 months.  I am heavier, weighing around 140.  But this time it’s been exactly regular so far, and I haven’t had the pain or fatigue that I did before.  Everything has been much easier and more normal.  So despite being not entirely pleased to be a bit heavier, my body seems “healthier” for it (this is still within the “normal” range for my height, just on the high side of it — and I have a medium bone structure and a lot of curves too).

Weight

So this brings us to the first point: what is a healthy weight for women?

I believe it is both more than we’re told, and less than it often is.

I’m struggling with how to even describe the “average” woman’s weight right now.  Clothing sizes are not standardized and are terrible (recently, I rejected a 10 in one brand as ‘too small’ and ended up buying a 6 in another brand that fit perfectly…).  BMI isn’t accurate for women, especially shorter women.

I’ll try to go with appearance.  It’s normal to have fat deposits on your hips, in your breasts, and in your thighs.  It’s even normal to have some — but not too much — in your abdomen.  (High amounts of abdominal fat are associated with increased risk of heart disease.  It’s better to have it in your hips and thighs.)  It’s not normal (for most women) to have extremely thin bodies with little fatty tissue.  Women need to have 15 – 20% body fat to be healthy (and some women may be up to 24% and be perfectly healthy).  Significantly more or less is associated with hormonal imbalances.  (BMI, again, is not a good measure of this.  Find a professional to actually measure you.)  In some cases, though, a woman has gained weight because of hormonal imbalance, rather than the imbalance causing the weight gain.

Don’t forget that a healthy diet will help to maintain or reach a healthy weight!

Detoxification

These days, many women see their cycles as an annoyance.  There are birth control methods that suppress your period for months at a time.  This is truly a terrible idea.

Your cycle isn’t just shedding the lining of your uterus (which is important).  It’s also cleaning out old hormones, skin cells, and anything else that needs to go.  It’s a time of detoxification for your body.  I have found that I have less of an appetite and that I crave lots of fruits and vegetables, lighter food.  I especially love my FCLO and my herbal multivitamin.  I drink lots of water.

Rather than fighting this natural process, we need to embrace it.  Allow it to happen and support your body.  Treat it as a natural form of detox, as it is.

Here are some ways to support your body:

  • Get extra rest
  • Take Epsom salt baths
  • Take extra FCLO
  • Take an herbal multivitamin, and/or an herbal infusion (details below)
  • Go easy on grains or heavy foods; focus on light, fresh foods
  • Drink plenty of water or electrolyte drink

I’m trying to do all of these things now.

An herbal infusion that may assist you is: equal parts dandelion, red clover, red raspberry leaf and spearmint.  These are high in B vitamins, iron, magnesium, and a number of other vitamins and minerals.  Dandelion is nourishing and also helps to gently detoxify.  Red raspberry and red clover help to balance hormones and can relieve cramping and pain.  Spearmint is good for taste, and it’s also really high in folate.

Many women have experienced relief from severe menstrual symptoms with red clover and red raspberry.  This is a great place to start, if you’re needing relief and aren’t sure what is going on.

The Role of Cloth

Using disposable menstrual supplies (pads and tampons) can negatively affect your health.  These products are usually bleached and deodorized and contain chemicals which can be absorbed into your very sensitive skin.  This, in turn, can cause additional pain and cramping.

Many women find that when they switch to cloth pads or reusable menstrual cups, they experience less pain.  For women who are struggling, it is definitely worth a try.  Of course, any reduction in exposure to chemicals is a good idea!

Healthy Temperatures

I’ve been reading a little bit at 180degreehealth.com recently, because I’ve discovered my body temperature is really low — it was only 96.8!  Ideally it should be over 98.  I have a tendency to skip meals, which drops my metabolism down, which can lead to gaining weight or hanging onto extra weight (not being able to lose).

I’m going to try to stop skipping meals and see if I can get my temperatures to rise.  I have been in the habit for so many years now of skipping meals (at first, years ago, because I thought it would make me thinner and healthier — which is a lie — and now because I’m just so busy being mommy and everything else that I take care of myself last!) that it’s hard to even eat enough.  I actually physically don’t want to eat very much, even when I know I need to.

So my goal is going to be to eat a little more than what I feel comfortable with.  Never to stuff myself, but to make sure I’m eating to satisfaction at all meals and having snacks in between too.  Today I’m going to go through my pantry and see what I can make with what I have.  (I’ll post on that later — who wants to join me with that?)

Get Healthy, Manage Your Cycle

Balancing your body and aiding the natural detoxification that occurs will help to solve some of the problems listed above.  It’s not a cure-all, but it’s a great place to start to ease the symptoms and start getting your body back in balance.  It will help you to feel stronger and healthier all the time, and — if you’re in this place in your life — prepare your body to conceive and have a healthy pregnancy.  I’m not there right now, so I’m looking at this just to be a healthier person.

**This post has been entered in Monday Mania at The Healthy Home Economist.**

Have you struggled with painful or irregular periods?  Have you ever looked at it as a mini-detox?

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Monday Health & Wellness: Does Calorie Counting Matter in Weight Loss?

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**This post has been entered in Monday Mania at The Healthy Home Economist and Real Food Wednesday at Kelly the Kitchen Kop!**

Health and weight loss is a major topic in this country.  Unfortunately, we are a country of extremes: many people are too heavy, yet have a goal to be what is ultimately too thin.  We don’t know what a “normal,” healthy body looks like any longer.  It’s important to achieve or maintain an appropriate weight in order to be healthy (and that weight may be lower or higher than we are told is “right”).

The basic answer we’re given about weight loss is this: “Simple!  Just consume fewer calories than you burn off, and you lose weight!”  But is that really true?  Could it be so simple?

Fallacy of “Simple” Weight Loss

If weight loss were truly simple, then we wouldn’t have such an epidemic right now.  If cutting calories was the primary or only thing that mattered, most of our population wouldn’t be overweight.  But the calories you take in are not used in an efficient, homogenous manner.  A person’s caloric needs can vary largely depending on a number of circumstances.  Hormones and other issues not related to food intake also play a role.

How many people do you know who have tried every diet out there — and maybe it was you?  Low fat, low-carb, low calorie, different supplements or pills, programs, meal replacement drinks….  And nothing works.  We had a family member who ate very little (and most of it was fruits and vegetables) and walked several miles on her treadmill each day…and didn’t lose a single pound.  In 8 months.  She came to find out that her thyroid and adrenals weren’t healthy and when she addressed those issues, she began to lose weight — even though she was eating a lot more (including a lot more fat) and not exercising.

Weight loss just isn’t about “taking in fewer calories than you burn off!”

The Body’s Caloric Needs

The idea that all calories are the same and that you can lose weight simply by eating fewer is honestly ridiculous to me.  Calories are just a measure of the amount of energy in the food.  They are not, in and of themselves, good or bad.  The amount of energy we truly get from food can’t “really” be calculated anyway, because our bodies aren’t looking solely for “energy.”  They are looking for a balance of macro and micronutrients.  If they don’t get what they are seeking, then they will signal you to eat more.  Calories, in number, are basically irrelevant to the body (they are neither a macro nor micronutrient).

It’s also true that your caloric needs can vary widely from time to time.  There is a base amount that you require simply to perform the functions needed to live — to keep your heart beating, your lungs breathing, and so on.  Beyond that it can change quite a lot, depending on your activity level, your hormones, whether you are healthy or sick, etc.  There is no way to gauge the true appropriate number of calories per day since it can change so often.  Ideally, you do not count calories at all, but take in an adequate amount of healthy food and allow your body to decide when and how much to eat.

Taking in too few calories can lead your body to store more as fat.  How many people do you know who begin restricted-calorie diets who initially see good weight loss — for a few weeks — and then plateau or even gain a little back?  It’s considered “normal” in weight loss circles, but it’s not.  This is a sign that you are eating too little.  Your body is holding onto everything you eat and is more likely to store fat, because it is in “starvation” mode.  They warn about this with eating disorders, but it can happen to anyone who goes on a seriously restricted-calorie diet.

There are other major issues with restricted calories, too, and you can read the entire post I wrote on low-calorie diets previously.

How to Handle Calories?

The simple answer?  Don’t.  Don’t pay any attention to the number of calories in a snack.  When you are healthy, your body will regulate what you need naturally.

The problem is that if you are overweight, you may not be healthy enough for your body to self-regulate.  The body should produce ghrelin to let you know you’re hungry and should eat, then produce leptin to tell you to stop, you’ve had enough.  If you are not eating the right foods or something else is “off” with your body, then these hormones may not be produced properly, especially leptin.  Insulin may be over or under produced.  This is typically known as “metabolic syndrome” and places you at risk for diabetes.

The best place to start is to cut out all sugars and white flour or other refined grains from your diet, if you haven’t already, and cut back on grains in general.  This will stop the crazy blood sugar spikes that lead to insulin issues, and start to get your hormones back to normal.  It will take time.

In the mean time, eat meat, vegetables, whole dairy, some fruits and grains to satisfaction, but never to feeling “stuffed.”  Don’t worry about how many calories this is or isn’t.

Do You Eat Too Few Calories?

I have a bad habit, personally.  I make sure my kids eat all day, but I’m usually doing chores while they’re “tied up” at the table, so I don’t sit down and eat with them.  Therefore, I often don’t eat enough in general.

I haven’t lost all my baby weight yet (I know, it’s only been two months) and I suspect the reason is that I’m not eating enough, so my body won’t let go of the bit of additional weight I still have.  Biologically, I need that fat to continue to produce milk, and if my body is worried that I am not eating enough to sustain myself and produce quality milk, then I will not lose weight.  Therefore, my plan to lose my baby weight is actually to eat more.

The average woman, around 150 lbs. with low to moderate activity needs a minimum of around 1600 calories a day just to perform her basic functions.  She needs probably 2000 to maintain her activity levels.  Add pregnancy or breastfeeding or any additional needs?  3000 isn’t out of the realm of possibilities.

This is far more than we are told is appropriate.  But, it is true.  And again, this can change depending on the number of macro/micro nutrients the body needs at any given time.

Are You Getting Your Nutrients?

The basic reason why people are so heavy these days is that they are malnourished.  When people eat foods that contain very few micronutrients (vitamins and minerals), their bodies do not have what they need to function.  So, the body encourages you to eat more, in hopes of getting the nutrients it needs.  Ultimately, people take in a lot more calories, sugar, carbs, etc. than they need but still don’t have enough nutrients.  The situation is even worse because many of these processed foods actually draw nutrients out of the body for digestion and detoxification, upping your nutritional requirements.  Worse still, many of the nutrients that are in these foods are supplemental, added during processing and they’re not well absorbed by the body.

It’s very common to be deficient in some nutrient…or several nutrients.

  • Vitamin A Deficiency — Night-blindness, infertility, frequent infections, poor growth (children), genetic disorders, anemia
  • Vitamin B Deficiency — Fatigue, weakness, anemia, bleeding gums, diarrhea, constipation, loss of balance, depression, dementia, dermatitis, mental disorders, high or low blood sugar, neural tube defects (in babies whose mothers are deficient), irritability, nervousness, dizziness, frequent headaches, cancer, infertility
  • Vitamin C Deficiency — Anemia, bleeding gums, frequent infections, long healing/recovery times, dry hair and skin, bruises easily, weight gain, painful joints
  • Vitamin D Deficiency — Rickets, muscle weakness, frequent infections, osteoporosis, psoriasis, cancer, diabetes, high blood pressure
  • Vitamin E Deficiency — Ataxia, muscle weakness, poor vision, frequent illness
  • Vitamin K Deficiency – Lack of blood clotting, easy bruising, loss of bone density, bleeding gums, heavy periods
  • Magnesium Deficiency — Constipation, nausea, weak bones, frequent infections, high/low blood sugar, high blood pressure, leg cramps/restless legs, fatigue, weakness, seizures, abnormal heart rhythms
  • Potassium Deficiency — High blood pressure, muscle weakness and cramps, fatigue, anxiety, acne, poor sleep, constipation
  • Zinc Deficiency — Loss of appetite, frequent infections, impaired growth (in children), impotence, delayed healing, mental lethargy
  • Calcium Deficiency — Back or neck pain, easily broken bones, numbness, weakness, bruises, seizure, chest pain
  • Copper Deficiency — Anemia, impaired growth (in children), weight gain, frequent infections, poor motor control, low energy

This is not an exhaustive list.  And it’s important to note that many of these symptoms overlap and can also signal other things not noted here.  If you suspect that you may be deficient in something, please see a health professional to get a test done.

If it turns out you are deficient in something, it is either because you are not consuming enough of that nutrient in your diet, or because your body cannot absorb and use the nutrient efficiently.  If the latter is the case, a healing diet like GAPS may be in order (which should also lead to weight loss).

What if I Can’t Lose Weight?

If you’re struggling to lose weight, check all of the issues above.  Are you eating enough?  Are you deficient in any nutrient?  Are you eating too much sugar or too many grains?  Are you eating processed foods and industrial fats?

If you’re doing all the right things and you still are not losing weight, consider that the diet you are consuming may not be the most appropriate for you.  Although traditional foods are superior, and we should avoid modern, processed foods, the exact diet that you consume can vary quite widely.  Some eat primarily protein and fat from animal sources.  Some need a much higher percentage of fresh produce with only a small amount of animal products.  Try out different ratios until you figure out a diet that is more appropriate for you.

If nothing is helping, seek the advice of a medical professional.  It may be that your hormones are out of balance you need supplements or other help getting them back in line.  If you have an underlying thyroid or adrenal condition, you may be unable to lose weight.  If you have heavy metal toxicity or muscle weakness or any number of other conditions, this may affect your weight loss, as well.

It is important to seek the advice of a professional who understands the body and can run the appropriate tests to see if any of your levels are out of balance, then help you re-balance them so that your body can lose weight.

What is an Appropriate Weight?

We don’t know what’s “healthy” anymore with regards to weight.  It’s clearly not healthy for a woman who is 5’5″ (average) to weigh 300 lbs.  Neither is it healthy for her to weigh 85 lbs.

It’s important to understand that BMI is not accurate, either.  The BMI, or Body Mass Index, is a formula to “guess” how much body fat you have.  It can be off quite a lot, especially if you are young, on the short side, or especially muscular.  A better idea is to get a test done to see how much body fat you actually have.  The “ideal” for women is 18 – 24% during child bearing years, which is more than we’re told we should have.  A lot of women really need to carry extra weight in their hips, thighs, and butts!  Wide hips are a sign of fertility for a reason!

Every person’s body has a “set point.”  There is some evidence to suggest that some people are meant to be what we consider overweight (not morbidly obese, though).  Once you have figured out any health issues you have and have begun to lose weight, your body will eventually settle naturally where it should be.  This may be different than what you expected or wanted.  Accept it.

On GAPS, I lost 30 lbs. (post-baby) and got down to around 112.  I’m 5’3″ with a rather curvy figure.  I started to slowly gain weight again until I settled around 126 for awhile (only then did I actually get a normal period, it had been really abnormal until that point, which is not typical for me).  I gained a few more pounds, settling in around 130 — and then I got pregnant again.  That seemed to be where my body was healthiest, even if I was a bit “bigger” than I had been or might have liked to be.

It is important to adjust our expectations and to begin with a mind on what is truly healthy, ignoring the world’s definition of beauty.  Those frail-boned, stick-thin, hollow-cheeked women are not beautiful!  They look sick and malnourished.  All the make up in the world can’t change that.  I’ve taught my daughter already that it’s important to be healthy, and that these women are clearly not.  It’s taken me a few years to change my own thoughts and standards on beauty; I don’t want her to ever contend with that.

A Note on Baby Weight

I’m trying to lose the weight from my third pregnancy — I’m familiar with this subject!

First, be patient.  In my experience, unless you were overweight to begin with, it will take at least three months for the weight to come off.  Breastmilk production stabilizes around 12 weeks postpartum, which is when your body may be ready to shed the last of that weight.  Don’t expect to lose those last 5 or 10 lbs. sooner than this.  (I keep reminding myself of this.)

Eat enough.  If you’re not consuming enough food to meet both your own nutritional needs and your baby’s, you will not lose the weight.  This is likely why some women say they can’t lose weight while breastfeeding.  Your body is ensuring it can continue to produce milk so it holds onto the extra fat.  There is some evidence to suggest that if your baby is having “seedy” poop (which is really just undigested milk curds), your milk contains enough fat.  I check this frequently to make sure my diet remains adequate in this area!

Finally, realize that your shape may simply change somewhat, and this is okay.  Buy some clothes that fit you properly and be proud that your body can carry babies!  I’m still working on the “clothes that fit” part, but Ben’s actually helping me shop (so much fun!) and he doesn’t seem to mind at all that I’m a bit different…lol.

What do you think?  Do calories really matter in weight loss?

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