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Real Food Changes and What I Have Stuck With

By Nikki Hughes, Contributing Writer

When I first started my “real food” journey, I was all in! I committed to more than I could handle and tried to completely transform our life all at once. 

As I explained in my post “Why I Continue on my Real Food Journey”, there are many reasons why I believe this diet lifestyle is the best for my family. What I need to address, however, is that I don’t stick to all aspects of “real fooding” (yes, I just made that up!).

I began fermenting, sprouting, dehydrating, soaking, freezing, preserving and I am sure there are more processes that I am forgetting. The problem? I didn’t know much about any of these things. I had two little ones at home (both under the age of two) and I was dealing with health problems of my own. 

Learning curve to say the least. Everyday I would spend hours in the kitchen and on the computer. Trying to learn new styles of preparing foods. Trying to learn about new foods. Trying to get all of the unhealthy foods out of my house.  

I was heading down a sleep slope to burnout-ville. My husband knew it, and I knew it. It was too much at one time. You can probably find “baby steps” to a real food journey all over the blogosphere. I won’t delve into that process here. I will however tell you what I started and what I stick with. 

This is by no means “the ultimate list of what you should do as a real foodie” it is merely what works for me. I do consider myself a real foodie (there is truly no question about that) but I don’t let it rule my life. 

My kids, my husband, my God and my laundry is far too important for that. 

Here are 5 big changes I made (and if I am still sticking with it). These happen to be the biggest changes I made, but I believe everyone should decide what is most important for their family:

  • Change #1: Homemade cereal/hot cereal instead of boxed, store bought cereal
  • Process: I didn’t toss all of my cereal (that would be wasteful). I did however, opt to not replace it. I began making my own homemade cereal.
  • Still sticking with it?: Yes! This is (in my opinion) one of the easiest changes to make. If you take one thing away and add several things that taste better, how is it not a win win? Better for you and better tasting! No, I do not always make my own cereal (as I say, “Life happens”) but I do serve oatmeal, steel cut oats or rice for breakfast as alternatives.
  • Change #2: Cut out margarine, canola oil, spray oils and Crisco
  • Process: I did toss these. I felt like they were so bad for me that I just had to. And honestly, they weren’t that expensive (unlike boxed cereal that is through the roof!). The amount I saved by not buying boxed cereal could be put into my new oils: butter, coconut oil, olive oil (already used that but wanted to include anyway), and palm shortening, beef tallow, and chicken fat (to name a few).
  • Still sticking with it?: You betcha. These make a huge difference in my skin, my energy level and my weight! Oh, and they taste SO MUCH BETTER.
  • Change #3: Lacto-fermented veggies instead of store bought (pickles, sauerkraut, etc.)
  • Process: They are so much better for you! I made sauerkraut, pickles, eggs, chutney, salsa, and so much more. It is more nutritious than eating raw or cooked veggies. It is also nice to be able to grab quick bites out of the fridge.
  • Still sticking with it?: Um, no. This adds a lot of extra time to my kitchen routine. “Something’s gotta give” and this is what it was for me. It was a lot of work and to be honest, we didn’t “love” most of it. I DO love the sauerkraut though…I stick with that!
  • Change #4: Stop buying bread and stop buying store-bought flour
  • Process: I finished what I had in the way of store bought so I wasn’t wasteful. I bought a grain mill so I could grind my own flour. 
  • Still sticking with it?: Yes and no. My husband loves sandwiches and I haven’t had a chance to always make a recipe and stock up in the freezer. I keep some sandwich bread in the freezer just in case. I have not been making homemade bread lately because my daughter and I have a gluten allergy and intolerance (me intolerance and she has an allergy) so we do a lot of GF cooking. I do however always grind my own flour when using regular flour.
  • Change #5: Sourdough instead of regular uses for flour
  • Process: Instead of regular homemade wheat bread, I opted for sourdough bread. Much easier to digest and it was even healthier than just soaking my grains. I also love sourdough pancakes, english muffins, and tortillas! Oh, and donut holes!
  • Still sticking with it?: No. As I mentioned with change #4, we have cut back on the grains in our house. Oh, and the real reason? I always kill my starter. Always. I should not be allowed to be a mommy for a sourdough starter. Bad mommy.

Those are just a few…trust me there are more (I really threw myself in!).

What are your biggest changes and what have you stuck with?

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Why I Continue on my Real Food Journey

By Nikki Hughes, Contributing Writer

I didn’t just wake up one morning and say “I am going to start eating foods that are traditionally prepared.” Nor did I say “I wonder what a real food diet is. I should look into it.”

No, I read a book. Cover to cover. I read the book because it had the term “diet” in it and I was looking for a new approach to an old dilemma: “how am I going to lose weight.”

I didn’t want to go on a diet. I didn’t want to make it a “big deal.” I had put on some weight (quite a bit to be exact) when I was pregnant with my first. I started losing weight but still wasn’t feeling great. I knew something needed to change.

The book was “The Makers Diet” by Jordan Rubin. It really opened my eyes. In this book he cited several recipes and other resources from a book I had not heard of before, “Nourishing Traditions” by Sally Fallon. So I then started reading that book.

I lost a solid month of “reality” as I was drawn in to the “real food” world. It was an extreme overhaul in my life. My pantry, my refrigerator, my shopping cart, you name it. I knew I had to change how I fed myself and my family, I just didn’t know where to begin. So I threw myself in, head first. I was 100% committed.

Now that I feel somewhat in control of this way of eating life, I can confidently tell you there are 6 really good reasons why you should consider (or revisit or continue) on a real food journey. 

Lose weight

My real food journey began when I realized I needed to lose my baby weight. Truth is, before I even had my first, I was starting to “pack on the pounds.” Not enough to go on an extreme diet or to spend all my time exercising, but enough for me to notice that my wardrobe didn’t fit very well anymore. 

I thought that by simply eating low fat foods and counting my calories I would lose weight. I could not have been  more wrong. Unfortunately, so many people think this is true. Don’t even worry about the number of calories! Don’t count them! Fat is high in calories. Fat is good. That means calories are good. We need them to live!

Feel healthier

Before I began actually losing weight, I started feeling better. Turns out I enjoyed that more than losing weight. Don’t get me wrong – I love being smaller now, but having more energy, clearer skin, and a better night’s sleep? It was great and a testament to the food I was eating.

Eat what tastes good without feeling limited by a “diet”

I don’t like the diets that say “Eat only this, this or this 6 days a week and then eat whatever you want on the 7th day.” That just didn’t make since to me. Why would I work so hard for 6 days to only fill my body with crud on the 7th day? 

I also don’t like diets that make me give up all things that I hold dear. Bread, butter, bacon (and bacon grease) and sweets. Oh how I love sweets.

I discovered that by eating the right fats and the right sugars, within moderation, I was actually healthier. Turns out God knew what He was doing when He created us to like steak with green veggies and butter and some freshly sprouted bread or maybe some potato.  The combination of those ingredients actually helps you digest your food. It makes it easier on your body to draw out the vitamins and minerals found in the green veggies. The green veggies help your body digest the meat. Isn’t that exciting?

Butter

Oh butter how I love you. You add such a wonderful touch, taste and texture to all things. Sweet, savory, it doesn’t matter. There is a place for you in my kitchen. 

A real food diet loves butter. Therefore, I love butter. I don’t think much more needs to be said about this one.

Save money

If you pay attention to your grocery budget, at all, you will notice that the packaged, prepared foods are more expensive. Processed food is the number one thing you need to get out of your pantry. By doing so, your space for real food items increases, as does your cash flow. Win-win.

Food allergies and sensitivities

This isn’t what got me started on a real food diet, but it is one of the 6 things that is keeping me on a real food diet. My breastfed daughter has food allergies resulting in eczema. By going on an elimination diet, I have discovered that removing some foods from my diet has helped her skin. It is also helping her GI Tract all around. I will begin adding food back until I find what she reacts to. I will then keep that out of my system until she is done breastfeeding and out of her system until she is 2. Then I will reintroduce that food once her immune system is stronger. If it is gluten, I will introduce properly prepared grains (soaked, sprouted, soured). If it is dairy, I will limit it to raw cheese, raw milk and kefir. Having an already established real food lifestyle makes this accommodation much easier on the entire family.

A Word on Moderation

The main tidbit I share with others new on their journey, is moderation. Eat good whole foods, freshly prepared with no preservatives. Switch up what you eat. And eat all of those things in moderation. 

Give your body new things to try. Give your body the tools it needs to digest. By tools I mean preparing your foods properly to allow your body to digest, process, and utilize what it is given. Without this, your body will turn food into toxins – and you will get sick, gain weight and lose energy!

The further I have gotten on my journey the more I realize there is no reason to “turn back.” This is easier, more affordable, healthier and so much tastier!

These are my reasons for embarking on this journey and staying motivated to continue. What are your reasons? Do you need motivation?

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Halloween: To Celebrate or Not to Celebrate

Image by Sarah Ackerman

By Nikki Hughes, Contributing Writer

As a Christian we are asked this by our fellow believers, and nonbelievers alike. Am I “sinning” if I allow my children to participate? If I hand out candy to little witches and goblins? Heaven forbid if I should open up my house to them!

No, do not fall to your knees and beg for forgiveness (just yet!) my friend. I do not believe it is quite so black and white. If you poll one hundred Christians I believe you would get a split-down-the-middle “I’m Torn” response. I fall into this camp. Some people are adamant and allow nothing about Halloween to encroach upon their family. Others celebrate it without a worry in the world. While I lean more towards the former, let’s see what the history is, what the Bible has to say about it, and what other Christians around the blogosphere are saying about it.

The history of Halloween (a very brief synopsis):

The celebration of Samhain, started by the Celts 2,000 years ago, is where we find the first roots of what is now Halloween. Their new year was November 1, so October 31 was their “New Year’s Eve.” During this time, so long ago, the end of summer and beginning of winter marked an entrance to more deaths, depression, and despair. Together this was a horrible time of the year for them. They believed that on this night, the line between the living and the dead was blurred. They believed the ghosts returned to the earth, damaged crops, caused trouble and opened up opportunities to speak to the dead. These people were completely dependent on their earthly well being (their crops and their lives) and were therefore at the mercy of these “ghosts” and those who could speak to the dead.

To commemorate the event, the Celts built huge sacred bonfires, where the people gathered to burn crops and animals as sacrifices to the Celtic deities. During the celebration, the Celts wore costumes, typically consisting of animal heads and skins, and attempted to tell each other’s fortunes.

Throughout the many centuries that followed, those that took over the land then revised the holiday. It began being a celebration for all who have died. The Catholic church then combined their holiday “All Martyr’s Day” with the former Celts’ holiday to form “All Souls Day.” All Souls Day was celebrated similarly to Samhain, with big bonfires, parades, and dressing up in costumes as saints, angels and devils. The All Saints Day celebration was also called All-hallows and the night before it, the traditional night of Samhain in the Celtic religion, began to be called All-hallows Eve and, eventually, Halloween.

What does the Bible have to say about this?

The Bible doesn’t have “Halloween” in any of it’s words. Even my big huge gigantic Strong’s concordance doesn’t mention Halloween. So what does the Bible say about it?

Nothing.

This is why I believe it can’t be “written in stone” one way or another. But don’t go running to Party City just yet. It may not mention Halloween, or All Hallow’s Eve, but trust me, the Bible has plenty to say about darkness, evil, separating yourselves from the world, sorcery, witchcraft, and all things “not of the light of Jesus Christ.”

Again, what does the Bible have to say about all of this? Okay, here you go. (I will include the scripture reference with a brief explanation. I encourage you to open your Bible and read the actual verse for yourself. It’s a powerful tool!

  • Ephesians 5:11-12 “We are to live in righteousness and purity. We are to take no part in evil ways or any of the works of Satan AND the world.” The buck doesn’t stop there. Not only are we to abstain from such things, but we are to expose such things! Say it with me “expose and oppose…expose and oppose.” That’s right. Wherever it is found (sometimes right in your own church) – expose it and oppose it!
  • I Thessalonians 5:21-22 “Test it. Is it good? If not, toss it out. Evil in every form needs to be “exposed and opposed” So if you believe it to be evil (evil spirits are, well, evil) than you are to have no part in it. If it is evil or unbiblical it is to be shunned.
  • 3 John 11 “Beloved, do not imitate what is evil, but what is good…” I think that is pretty self explanatory.
  • Romans 12:9 “Abhor what is evil.” Do you know what abhor means? This doesn’t just mean “don’t like.” The Greek (apostugeo) literally means “to detest utterly.” (I am glad to finally pull my Strong’s out…it has been a while!)
  • Deuteronomy 18:9-12: “When you go into a new land you are not to take over their evil customs. Do not be influenced. The Celts practice was one based on an evil premise. Contacting the dead, sorcery (and the like), are evil. Taking a holiday or custom that was evil and combining it with a church’s celebration? Not good, my friend.

So now what?

You have the history. You know what the Bible says about evil, being one with this world and darkness versus light. How do you know for sure these all apply to Halloween? I must say, you don’t know for sure. I am sorry to leave you with that. It is a decision you have to make on your own need to pray about.

I have one last verse to share. I Peter 2:11: We are called to a righteous life in a hostile world. We are not of this world. We are different. As believers if there is a worldly celebration we know is evil, we are to oppose, expose and not feel as though we need to fill this with something else. Meaning, don’t feel as though you are depriving your children if you and your family decide to abstain from Halloween. Don’t let the world guilt you into a celebration that you know is wrong. Guilt is from Satan, conviction is from the Lord. You don’t have to make it up to your kids. Trust me, the Lord will take care of your family’s desires!

Here is where it gets tricky (pun intended):

Do you believe that all Halloween festivities are evil? If your child doesn’t dress up as an evil character; If you don’t go trick-or-treating; if you take the outwardly “evil” out of the evening, is it okay?

  • A possible Pro “Quasi” Halloween approach: Use this as a chance to celebrate that Jesus is King. Don’t let Satan RUIN a perfectly good day! Don’t let him have a foot hold by making all the Christians hide out while evil runs free for a night. Get out there and spread the word about Jesus. Put your kiddos in a cute outfit and share the good news. Maybe even go to a “harvest festival” to celebrate “not celebrating.” We can take the evil out of it!
  • A possible Anti-Halloween approach: Participate in anyway and you are not separating yourself from the world. With an evil basis, this holiday was doomed from the beginning. Do not try to fill the gap or void of Halloween with substitutions such as Harvest festivals or darling little princess outfits. It is an evil day. When else are people allowed to dress up in gruesome attire, pretend to murder people, communicate with the dead and kill innocent kittens? Halloween. It is evil. Christians have no part.

What is my family doing? We are turning off the front porch light, popping some popcorn and watching a movie (with some Reese’s Peanut Butter cups…don’t judge me!). We won’t be handing out candy or dressing up. We feel as though the Bible verses (provided above) have left us with no option but to abstain from the celebrations. Not only abstain, but also to not fill the void with other festivities. We don’t think we need to try to make, what we consider, an evil holiday an “okay” holiday.

Please let me tell you one thing: I am not pointing my finger at you. I am not going to judge you in this regard. I challenge you to get into your Bible. Check out these verses. Pray about it. Talk to your husband. Talk about it here, in the comments. Email me if you would prefer to comment offline (though I do encourage commenting here so we can all be apart of it!).

To help you out if you feel stuck, here is what some other Mommies (and one dude) are saying:

  • “We don’t ‘do’ Halloween. When I was growing up, my parents didn’t do it for us either. It just seems like a strange holiday to me…I get a lot of disapproving looks from other Mommies when they find out I don’t get Annie a costume…..as though I am depriving her. But, we just feel this choice is best for us. For holidays, we try to focus on the Biblical outlook instead of the secular outlook…..and I don’t know that Halloween has a Biblical outlook. Nevertheless, I have no problem with other people who want to celebrate it.” Stacy
  • “I don’t like to say we celebrate Halloween–or anything to do with evil spirits…but we do dress our girls up. I think last year was the first year we actually walked around our neighborhood and let our little girl go trick-or-tricking…I see it like this: We will never let her dress in anything evil, but we will let our girls dress up like animals, princesses, etc., and we will use that night as a way to reach out to our neighbors. We (my family) are too often so busy with our church and other activities that we don’t take the time to get to know our unbelieving neighbors. We feel like Halloween is the one night of the year we can go knock on their doors with no agenda, smile and show Christ.” Erin
  • Here is a brief video that explains a pastor’s view (and a quick excerpt on the history):

All right…the million dollar question…are you celebrating Halloween this year?

 Sources:

History of Halloween

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